Write down all your sexual fantasies on a stack of cards and get your lover to do the same. Then, each partner should sort all their cards into two separate piles:
1: Fantasies to turn into reality, such as having sex in a public place or being a sex slave.
2: Fantasies to remain only as fantasies, such as group sex or having sex with someone of the same sex. Expressing your sexual fantasies can be a huge part of foreplay—or it can be the main event!