Well, kind of! Set up a seduction scenario with your partner at a local bar, and be sure to arrive separately. Then it’s all about the pursuit. Maybe they drop a seduction line or send over a drink from the other side of the bar. Let the actor inside fuel this fantasy, or pick one of the characters from our Library.

Play a game of fantasy charades where you get to act out your favorite fantasies without speaking. See if your partner can guess what you are trying to tell them through your actions and movements. Got props? Use them to help your partner guess your fantasy. For example, if you have a cop fantasy, get some handcuffs. If you’re a doctor or nurse, get some latex gloves, and if you’re little red riding hood, get a red cape with a picnic basket.

Write down all your sexual fantasies on a stack of cards and get your lover to do the same. Then, each partner should sort all their cards into two separate piles:

1: Fantasies to turn into reality, such as having sex in a public place or being a sex slave.

2: Fantasies to remain only as fantasies, such as group sex or having sex with someone of the same sex. Expressing your sexual fantasies can be a huge part of foreplay—or it can be the main event!